marriage and kids

Being the self-admiring person who has to look at his blog before he sleeps, I spotted your post. This post is dedicated to you kal. It's your favourite topic. Feel honoured.

The sacred mission. I crapped about work earlier and that it should not occupy a humongous portion of life. There are other things in life. Like my topic. Marriage is THE event in life when you declare that you have filled the vaccum in the heart. Humans are made such that they are destined to be in pairs. Like adam and eve. It takes a great deal of self-denial to be able to live 80 years alone and declare that your life is complete. Friend and darling is different. A friend can never reach the level of love and attention that can be afforded to you by your darling. After all, that friend would eventually leave you for a darling.

Kids are gifts from heaven. Take away their mischievous side and you have a little angel. Add in that mischievous side and you have a mischievous little angel. The thing I like most about kids is their innocence and candidness. They will liven your life up so much that all the work stress and emo-problems will disappear in a snap of fingers. And, there is no greater satisfaction than seeing your kid grow up, succeed in life and later support you and your darling in old age.

Marriage and kids are not taboo topics. They are in fact part of the reason of our existence here. I know, beneath that unwilling and independant facade is a warm-hearted desire to embrace both missions. You can argue with me when you see me.